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On Thursday, March 11, at 6 PM (MST) I was a guest on ConversationsLive! Radio with host C.A. Webb.
If you missed the interview, you can listen on the link - Just click here: http://tobtr.com/s/936737.
I was a featured guest on Everyday Parenting where I was interviewed by accomplished author, Lisa Hein. We discussed the importance of women overcoming the inevitable obstacles that erode at their dreams.
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A Character Interview
Today my guest is the character Benjamin (Ben) Powers from Tomorrow by Jeral Davis…Thank you, Benjamin, for joining me today. I am delighted to have you here. So, how are you? What have you been up to lately?
Thank you. Please, call me Ben. The only person who calls me Benjamin is my mother. And it’s not because she’s pleased. I’ll share with you what’s been rolling through my mind lately. It is one thing to espouse that God exists and quite another to embrace Him. I attended church while growing up. Yet, the God spoken of seemed detached, aloof. Why would I want Deity in my life to deepen my insignificance? I believe that’s what fuels my desire to be a part of something much greater than myself. For the past decade I have assisted in building orphanages in impoverished countries, supplying resources to those with HIV or AIDS, shifting the spotlight from me as a popular actor to those who have little to no voice.
I heard that your story was recently published. As someone who is constantly in the public eye how does that make you feel?
Paparazzi trail me everywhere. And, I mean everywhere. Yet, the photos they snap don’t truly capture who I am, my fears, or what I cherish. I’ve been strategic to maintain a certain level of privacy. Yet, within Tomorrow, I’m laid bare. It’s quite unnerving.
Well, have you read it? If so, do you feel that author portrayed your story accurately?
Okay. This is going to sound corny. There was a famous song from the 70’s called “Killing Me Softly” by Roberta Flack. Davis has captured exactly what is sung about in that song. This individual hears their dreams, aspirations, regrets and pain sung in a song by a stranger. Again, unnerving. I’d sing a few bars, but I don’t want you bolting from the room in agony.
In interviews you resist in sharing your private thoughts or desires. As a matter of fact, you appear to loathe it. So, I’ll ask for you to describe yourself in only 3 words.
Hmm. Persistent. Determined. Optimistic.
You seem to have had some difficult times lately. Would you care to share those with my readers?
So much has happened so abruptly in my life. I’m wrestling with the murder of a young mother who was stoned to death in a nearby village where I volunteer in South Africa. Which brings me back to wondering if there truly is a heaven or hell. Things aren’t settled.
How have these events affected you?
It’s like a volcano that has spewed lava and scorches everything in its path. That’s funny. I just realized a correlation. Have you ever had someone erupt into your life? That’s the way I would describe how I met Juliana DeLauer. She entered my life with such ferocity that it seemed like a rushing wind that had been asked for far too long to wait. Her views seem archaic – very old school if you get my meaning. She’s very much (makes parenthesis with his fingers) into God and the Bible. Yet, she never backs down. Despite our opposing belief systems, I am finding her fascinating. (Straightens and clears his throat). I mean, the way she thinks has interested me.
Intriguing. Can you tell us a little about Juliana?
She’s a magazine writer who also gives voice to those many have tossed aside. Although she graduated from college a mere two years ago, she can go toe-to-toe with the most seasoned, hard-nosed skeptic. She does it with such eloquence and style you don’t realize your head is swimming from her convictions.
How would you describe Juliana using only three words?
Poetic. Elegant. Provoking.
Is there anything that people might be surprised to learn about you?
I believe that every life has a purpose. Every adversity has a purpose. Yet, I’ve recently disclosed a secret that could shatter all that truly matters to me.
I really appreciate you taking the time to share with me. Your candor has been insightful. Before you go is there anything you’d like to ask my blog readers?
Yes. If a secret of theirs were exposed, would they truly trust God with the end result? And why?
Thanks Ben!
Silly Things I Do
These are some things I found interesting.
Soul Cysters
www.soulcysters.com
This website is full of up-to-date info, support and resources for those affected by PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome).
SoulCysters.com was created in 2000 by Kat Carney, in response to a critical lack of information online for women with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome. It is now the largest online community for women with PCOS. SoulCysters.com has won numerous awards, and has been featured in the national press including USA Today, Redbook, Woman’s World, Nurse Week, Family Doctor, Black Enterprise, and more.
Step-Up, Inc.
Do you struggle with recurrent patterns of anger, compulsions or addictions? Check out www.stepupinc.com.
Lisa Hein
Author of THE BOOK "I'm Doing The Best I Can!" (They won't always be cute and adorable) has been said to be "one of the most down to earth parenting/family resource you will find for today's parenting needs."
When her child was born, her world did a 180 degree spin. When he was in elementary school, she was the center of his world. In middle school, she was the most 'awesome' mom ever, and by the time he went to high school, she was the most ‘ridiculous’ person he had ever met!
Her heartfelt story allows parents to see the mistakes she made, and how to not cross lines that may put you in harms way, eventually.
Visit Lisa's website at:www.lisarhein.com
Lauren Miller
Lauren’s objective with her new book, Hearing His Whisper, is to share what brought her back from the brink of death. Hers is a story of triumph and healing fueled by faith and love and a journey that ultimately leads to internal freedom, self-love, inner strength and acceptance. Her inspirational wisdom will encourage and equip women who silently face a similar situation. The book is now available at all major booksellers and online at www.LaurenEMiller.com
CABSA
This site contains extensive information regarding HIV and faith-based organizations that assist those infected. Go to:
www.cabsa.co.za
The Nurturance Network
This ministry seeks to empower those longing for a deeper revelation and walk with God. Check it out out www.nurturance.org
Connie Pshigoda
Speaker/Teacher, Author of The Wise Woman's Almanac: A Seasonal Guide to Your Physical-Emotional-Spiritual Health offers Summer Women's Wellness Garden Gatherings. She has partnered with several other women in health and beauty businesses to offer a fun and educational time in the garden. If you are in Colorado, contact her for dates at www.WellnessForAllSeasons.com